The Pleasure, Risk, and Pain of Loving...

In thinking of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when u find a new one, you suddenly see this failure as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn’t really matter who won or lost. What important is you know when to hold and when to let go….You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if his happiness means not being part of it..

Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn’t love you back, don’t be afraid to love again, you’ll never know if it will be returned unless you give it a try. You never really loved unless you risk of it. Love strives and grows in hurting. If you don’t get hurt, you don’t learn how to love. Love doesn’t hurt all the time. The hurting is there to test you and help you grow .
Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress.

It is a lifetime learning , discovering, and growing. Love’s greatest irony is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when u need to let go. Loving people means giving them the freedom to choose whom and where they want to be, regardless whether those choices lead toward or away from you.

We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we love ourselves. Don’t find love, let love find you. That’s why it is called falling in love…`